6.26.2010

Frugal Finds

In the last year i've learned a lot of lessons but one of the biggest lessons learned is to be frugal and appreciate and spend wisely the finances God has given me. As some of you know this has been a hard lesson for me to learn since I am a former shopaholic and take out queen but after this year I enjoy looking for a deal it gives me even more satisfaction buying it then before :) So here are some of the fabulous frugal finds that I found this week (of course thanks to my creator who blesses me beyond belief).

Frugal Find #1: AE Artsy Skirt ($13.00)


Frugal find #2: Fake Flowers (1.99) will add a touch of color to any room.


Frugal Find #3: Mason Jars ($1.49) These can be used as vases, storage, spice holders, drinking cups, and candle holders. 


Frugal Find #4: Vans. (29.99) On sale. Thats why you should always check the sales rack :)


Frugal Find #5: Pizza Dough. (2.59 i've found cheaper) A nice way to spice up your movie night. Add your own sauce and toppings for under the cost of store bought pizza.

6.19.2010

Good Friends Are the Chocolate Cookies of Life....


Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NIV
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work; If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!



Last weekend I had some amazing friends come to visit me and evan. We had so much fun and so much adventure at disney after they left i was truly :(. I started to realize what amazing friends I have I mean I have always known this but i mean i really felt it this weekend. 
All our memories, the marriages, the relationships, the crabbiness, the humus and chips, and pranks i will always love them. I hope that one day we will all be neighbors and then we could have our own smurf village. lol. Its crazy how yrs go by and instead of talking about boys we are talking about babies, houses, careers and marriages. How we all have grown. It's so cool to have life long friends!
I never really understood the saying "true friends are rare to find" but now i do. These girls are so wonderful! They send me cookies when I get a job promotion, they remember our anniversary, we can laugh about anything, we facebook stalk together and the best part is I can look at there face and figure out what they are thinking. It feels like having sisters that I never got the chance to have...i'm am so blessed. Everyone should have good friends it brings smiles, joy and lots of laughter to your life <3.



6.13.2010

Inspiration

Well I have been trying to decide for months and months how to decorate the 2 empty as can be walls on each side of our bed.  After painting the wall a grey green I am excited to put white accents on the wall but I was still confused as to what i wanted. After my friends were visiting this weekend I began to realize that our towel hook may be to small so I ventured online to find a bigger more vintage towel hook and came across these photos my new inspiration! :)

6.07.2010

Mustard Seeds







"'...I tell you the truth, if you had faith even as small as a mustard seed, you could say to this mountain, "Move from here to there";and it would move. Nothing would be impossible.
-Matthew 17:20 NLT

This Sunday I found some mustard seeds in my bible. Not literally obviously because that would be pretty gross but the mustard seeds that verse above talks about. As some of you know me and my hubby lived in Miami and attended Flamingo Road Church (where we met)....since we were in college and wanted to reach many college students in that area we decided to serve as leaders in there college group Elevate.
One of the last times we were at elevate Mo (college leader) spoke about prayer and asking in faith, he even went as far to challenge us to make  list of things that we believe in faith would happen and pray about it in faith that God will arrange it and work it out. While in church this Sunday I opened my bible and my mustard seeds fell out. So I began to read it and I was shocked!
The list read as follows:
I want a job as a MFT working in Seminole County School System
I want to pass the Comps Exam and Graduate
I don't want it to rain on May 15, 2009
I want to go to St. Lucia with my Husband in May
I want to live in Avalon Park with my Husband
I want to be brave enough to be a witness to my interns
I want my husband to get into Full Sail, Get a Car, and get good credit.
I want my unsaved family members to be saved
I want my husband to work for lucas films.

As I read these I almost expected none to be answered but then i realized that many had been answered!!!
 I passed my comps exam and graduated, I work as an MFT not in Seminole county but in orange county where God see more need then I could have ever imagined, It DID NOT rain on May 15th until after our wedding was all over (amazing!), I had an amazing honeymoon with my hubby to better then St. Lucia (cayman islands!), My hubby got into full sail, got a car, and got good credit!
All I could think of was wow God you are so amazing and wonderful how you work in our lives! Obviously some have yet to be answered (evan working for lucas films and unsaved family members) but I will continue to ask in faith, specifically praying for those things.
Through this last year I have realized that God hears our prayers sometimes he gives us more than we can imagine, sometimes he changes our heart (like where we decided to live), sometimes he doesn't answer the prayers and has us wait on his perfect timing. The most important part is that God DOES answer our prayers. Have faith that our God will supply all your needs because he will he's done it in my life and he can do it in yours! Have faith like a mustard seed! Pray in faith like its going to happen tomorrow and it can because we serve a powerful God! I challenge you make a list like I did put it away and look at it 1 year later and see how God has worked in your life a produce some mustard seeds :) I know he will!

"Yes, Ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it' John 14:14 NLT
"I tell you, you can pray for anything, and if you believe that you've received it, it will be yours" Mark 11:24 NLT

6.05.2010

Investment

 "In finance, the purchase of a financial product or other item of value with an expectation of favorable future returns. In general terms, investment means the use money in the hope of making more money." 

Okay just imagine for a second if we changed our view of what investment is suppose to be into how our relationship should be with other Christians..."In Relationships, a relationship of value with an expectation of favorable future returns (ministry, serving, growing, ect.). In general terms, investment means the pouring into a relationship in hope of making more successful leaders of God. Wouldn't that change the way you treat your relationships with your friends or people you don't know? I know it has for me.
This thought started ringing around my head about almost a month ago when me and my hubby went away to celebrate our one year anniversary :). After our trip we decided to met up with someone who is and has made a huge impact in my life (my old mentor/youth leader). Rewind several years ago, I was attending a small church with a phenomenal youth group who was on fire for God! A youth group that believed that if you discipled one person a year that would lead to over 1,000 people a year being discipled and living some passionate lives for Christ.  My youth pastor and his wife invested there lives in us. They lived at the church with us basically...youth leader meetings, small groups, battle of the bands, events, breaking dancing competitions, all night praise and worship. Each time leading us and guiding us on how to grow as young Christian youth. I never really realized there impact until I met with my youth pastors wife. We were eating and I talked about the current youth group I serve in and how excited I am about the relationships i'm forming.
On the ride home as I began to look at the last few years of my life I began to realize how there investment has made me the person I am. Missions to Liberty to various church leadership to now serving in youth ministry. They took time to invest in me and now I want to invest in someone else.
Last night was our Middle School Girls Sleepover. The girls shared about many thoughts and struggles they have and as I spoke about how God has brought me through those very many experiences I couldn't help but think...if I invest in these girls life...I wonder if they will turn out as beautiful God fearing girls who will go through the same experiences as I did but with people who care and are investing in there lives fighting for them to be God Leaders, God Changers, God followers like my youth pastors wife did for me. I know its a risk, I get tired, I get weary, I think sometimes those girls don't need me but last night as i talked to those girls I couldn't help being so excited that one day my investment may help impact there lives :)
I'm so thankful to God for the many investments he made in my life to grow me to the Christian Women I am today. Obviously i'm not perfect but his investments in me were worth it because I am choosing to invest in other girls and guys like me and hopefully guide them on how to be stronger Christians. God is perfect in his creation...just the whole principle of investment and discipleship in ministry is such a beautiful process!
I challenge you this week invest in the life of a friend, brother, sister, mother, father...the risk might be much but it is far worth it in the end!